Let's Talk Re Letting Go (Short Film Reflection on Halik Sa hangin)
I wouldn't want to dwell about the love of a lost soul and a
human and how possible it is to co-exist. I just really want to delve
in the part where in this movie, it was manifested that an act of a true
love could come in the form of letting go. (I cried like a professional
in that part. Haha!)
So, there are a lot of arguments associated with true love,
say for instance, the most celebrated arguments, like if you love
someone, you fight for that love, or if you love someone, you sacrifice,
then you let it go, and if that love comes back it's for you. But what
if letting go, for good?
Gio (Gerald Anderson) had me drowning in my own tears when
despite his eager agenda to bring Mia (Julia Montes) with him to the
"other world" finally decided to let go of her, to let go of that love,
with no uncertainties, with no hesitations, sealed with a kiss, he let
go of that one person who gives him joy and I am sobbing like a loud
baby. (The latter's out of context)
What's the deciding factor that it's time to let go? I say,
it's the part when you come to your senses that love is not selfish.
There are a lot of considerations that comes with loving. It no longer
focuses solely on the two persons involve, and their happiness. What's
love if it's wrong? What's love if it's for other people's expense? What
are feelings if you know they aren't right, will you live by the cliche
of love and fighting? I say, no. There are a whole lot of external
factors. True love no longer takes on "you and me against the world",
what good a love that goes against the world when it shouldn't be, when
there are always ways to settle for everybody's good. Letting go of the
one you love because the benefits of that act outweighs your selfish
emotions is truly, utterly one courageous, noble act. Not because you
didn't fight for what you feel means you're weak, sometimes the bravest
act of fighting is when you know when it's time to retreat. (:
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